The Ultimate Elopement Checklist for Wild, Free, and Romantic Couples

So, you’re ditching the big guest list, skipping the stress, and running headfirst into a love story that’s raw, romantic, and real. Whether you’re hiking to a mountaintop in Virginia, renting a moody Airbnb in North Carolina, or saying your vows under a waterfall in Tennessee, eloping is about choosing freedom over formality.

But even spontaneous magic needs a little planning. This is your ultimate elopement checklist for 2026 couples who want a day that’s as wild and unforgettable as their love story.

🖤 1. Dream It, Don’t Overthink It

Before the logistics, vision comes first. Sit down with your partner and ask:

• How do we want it to feel? (Adventurous? Soft? Rock & roll?)
• What’s most important to us—location, vows, photos, food?
• Do we want anyone there? Or just us?

Build your day around experience, not expectations.

🌎 2. Choose the Perfect Place to Say “I Do”

Location sets the tone. Do you want misty mountains, moody forests, desert sunsets, or vintage city streets?

Consider:

• Weather and seasons
• Travel requirements
• Privacy and access
• Permits (especially for national parks!)

Hot tip for 2026: Elopements in lesser-known nature spots and historic venues are on trend. Think: foggy coastal cliffs, mossy ruins, or even retro motels with neon signs.

📸 3. Book Your Dream Photographer Early

You don’t need a giant guest list, but you do need someone who can capture the magic like it’s a love film. A photographer who understands mood, movement, and moments.

Look for someone who:

• Shoots in a storytelling, cinematic style
• Is down to hike, road trip, or run barefoot with you
• Helps you feel relaxed, real, and wild

Bonus: Ask if they’ll help you with timeline planning and location scouting. (I do that for all my couples 😉)

🧳 4. The Elopement Packing List (Don’t Forget This Stuff)

Wedding Essentials:

• Vows / vow book
• Marriage license + ID
• Rings
• Outfits + shoes
• Bouquet / accessories
• Touch-up makeup / travel mirror

Adventure Must-Haves:

• Hiking shoes or boots
• Warm layers (yes, even in summer)
• Water + snacks
• Headlamps or lanterns if you’re chasing sunrise or sunset

Extras That Elevate It:

• A custom playlist + portable speaker
• Champagne, coffee, or your favorite drink
• Polaroids or a vintage camcorder for DIY behind-the-scenes
• Sentimental objects (letters, photos, heirlooms)

💍 5. Timeline, Vibes, and Legal Stuff

Timeline:

Don’t rush. Build a flow that feels calm and connected. Include time for:

• Getting ready
• First look (if you want)
• Vow exchange
• Portraits + golden hour
• Private post-ceremony moment

Legal Details:

Depending on your location:

• You may need witnesses or an officiant
• Some states/countries allow self-solemnizing
• Permits for photography or ceremony might be required

📍Pro Tip: Make sure your photographer is familiar with the legal side of elopements in your location.

🔥 6. After the “I Do”: Celebrate Your Way

Just because it’s an elopement doesn’t mean it’s not a full-day celebration. After your ceremony, you could:

• Picnic under the stars
• Head to a dive bar or diner for burgers + beers
• Take a moody bathtub photo session back at the Airbnb
• Invite a few friends to meet up for drinks or a cozy dinner
• Dance to your song in headlights or fog

This is your love story, your rules. 

💫 Final Thought

An elopement is more than a “small wedding”, it’s a bold choice to do life and love on your terms. With the right intention, planning, and a little edge, it becomes a once-in-a-lifetime chapter you’ll never stop replaying.

If you’re looking for someone to document your elopement in a way that feels raw, romantic, and real,  I’d love to help you write your love story through photographs.